My husband is all about the little things. He believes that small gestures are really important in creating and maintaining that special feeling in a relationship, and he’s very good about surprising me with little treats, notes, sexy texts, and sweet words. I’ve been trying hard to return the favor although it doesn’t come as easily to me.
I started reading Submissy’s blog this summer, which provides a wonderful snapshot of their unique and loving D/s dynamic. One of the posts that I found most interesting detailed her Submissive Advent Calendar, twenty four days of little gifts from her to HisLordship to countdown to Christmas and show how much she cares and thinks about him. I knew that this would be something that Sir would really love, so I started planning right away. I thought that twenty four days would be too much for both of us and our schedule, so I decided to cut it down to the Twelve Days of Christmas complete with a little card for each day to be given with the gift. Some of the cards were straight forward and said exactly what that day would entail, and some cards were a riddle for him to ponder while at work. I am so grateful to missy for this wonderful idea, and I know that my husband was really blown away by the end results!
On the 1st Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
A list of twelve things she loves about me!
I printed the list out on pretty paper and handed it to him in an envelope when he got home from work. The items on the list ranged from his gorgeous blue eyes to his creativity, his lovely cock to his cooking, and I gave a little description of what each attribute meant to me. I kind of wish I would have saved this one for closer to the end of the twelve days because it was such a success. He got a little emotional as he read my list, and we were both giddy with love and admiration afterwards!
On the 2nd Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
A blue girl on her knees!
Since we transitioned to a 24/7 D/s relationship, he can have me sexually anytime and anyway he pleases, but there’s something sexy about offering up a nice blowjob right when he gets home from work. He certainly seemed pleased.
On the 3rd Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
Twelve little things for me to see!
I text him twelve sexy photos throughout the day, and this one turned out to be the hardest by far! I should have had some photos lined up ahead of time, but I thought it would be simple to get them done in one day. It was not. I wanted them to have a Christmas feel to them, and by the end of the day, I was grasping for ideas. Some of them were really raunchy (a Christmas ornament in a very naughty place) and some of them were funny (Santa and Mrs. Claus figurines standing on my butt). Luckily, I finished in the St. Nick of time, and he really liked them all, saying he didn’t have a favorite. Next year, I think I’ll try not to procrastinate on this one!
On the 4th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
Christmas stockings hung just for me!
We had to skip this day because we were still dealing with difficulties from the snowstorm. But, one day soon he will come home to find me only in my stockings. I bought these a while back and really love them because of the built in garter belt. I’ve worn them a couple of times with a dress, but haven’t really put them on just for him. I’ll leave my panties off so it will be different from the picture, and I think he will appreciate the easy access they will provide him!
On the 5th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
A little something sweet!
My husband has a sweet tooth, but he won’t admit it! I bought him two bags of his favorite Christmas candy, peppermint bark. With a huge grin on his face, he immediately went and “hid” the bags in the upper pantry cabinet in the kitchen where he always hides his candy. He was nice to share a few pieces with me!
On the 6th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
All day, your slave I will be!
I bought a collar and leash (I don’t wear a collar as part of my submission), to help us get into the mindset of slave and Master. He came up with a list of chores for me to complete, he put me over his knee for a wonderful spanking, and he had his way with me. It wasn’t so different from any other day as Dominant and submissive, but we did have some fun in these roles and perhaps he will bring out the collar again later and we can fine tune our game.
On the 7th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
His Choice – What will your fantasy be?
I was really curious to see what he would come up with, but he put a hold on this day. We unexpectedly had a lot to do and he wanted to put some thought and planning behind it. I’ll hopefully be posting something utterly kinky and exciting in the next few weeks.
His Choice turned out to be quite an evening!
On the 8th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
A sweet treat with extra goodies!
I got this one directly from missy. I’ve learned from reading her blog that she bakes a lot of cakes, especially during the holidays, so she spiced it up a little and did a naked bake for HisLordship. I also enjoy baking quite a bit, although cookies and cupcakes are more my thing. I put on my red heels and matching apron and baked Sir his favorite cookies, Browned Butter Sugar Cookies, in the nude of course. He was certainly pleased to come home to a sweet smelling kitchen and me displaying all my treats!
Look for my recipe at the bottom of this post!
On the 9th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
Massage and pedicure – a day of pampering!
I give him a massage almost every day, and I try to give him a pedicure once a month. This day I took my time and really tried to do a good job. He seemed relaxed and appreciative, especially since “Spa de blue” always provides a happy ending!
On the 10th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
Surprise Jingle Titties!
This is another one I got directly from missy’s advent calendar. I ordered some nipple clamps with jingle bells attached, but unfortunately, they did not arrive in time, so this day had to be delayed a bit. They did get here in time for day eleven which ended up working out perfectly!
On the 11th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
A sexy submissive strip tease!
When my husband and I first started dating, I did a strip tease for him to Christina Aguilera’s Nasty Naughty Boy (not really my favorite song but it works for a strip tease), and he LOVED it! I’m not sure why it’s taken me almost ten more years to do it again, but I finally did. And, I used the same song as when I first stripped for him, but I’m pretty sure he didn’t make that connection. Maybe my jingle titties in his face distracted him too much! I am a terrible dancer and felt a little ridiculous writhing on the floor, wiggling my butt around, but it was still a delight for him and was a good start to our mutually enjoyed finish later!
On the 12th Day of Christmas, my blue girl gave to me…
It’s cold outside, so warm up with some whiskey!
Since our trip to Ireland this past March, we’ve been on an Irish whiskey kick. We’ve always preferred Irish whiskey, but now I think it’s safe to say we’re obsessed. It’s not always easy to find new bottles here in the “Bible-belt” South, but I did and he was quite pleased. It was also a perfect timing to give this to him right before my mother arrived for the holidays so he could sneak off for a nip if he needed a break!
It was such a treat for me to give him his card each day, and I know that he was excited about it as well, often asking “when do I get my card?!”. I’ll have to start brainstorming some new ideas well ahead of time for next year so that I can come up with some new exciting gifts to give, but I’m sure I’ll recycle some of our favorites from this year. And, I can’t thank missy enough for her inspiring idea!