Frolicon 2019

I’ve been a little absent this week, only writing one post for Masturbation Monday. I promise to get back to writing next week, but first I’m going to spend my weekend having some fun. We are going to our first major kink convention this weekend and I have been busy getting everything ready, cleaning and packing all of our toys, picking out what I’m going to wear, and painting my nails and toes among a huge list of other odds and ends to prepare for four days of uninterrupted kinky fun.

Part of this preparation included getting my first ever Brazilian wax. I can’t believe I’ve been missing out on this for so long. I can barely keep my hands out of my pants because I feel so smooth and soft. It also looks amazing, no red bumps or irritation, my two lips peek out from a perfectly sized patch just above. I think I may be done with shaving from now on!

I didn’t have any clothing worthy of an event like this, so I ordered a few things off the internet and raided my little sister’s closet in order to put together some appropriate (or inappropriate in this case) outfits. I have a pretty simple style, and while I enjoy seeing other people wearing latex, leather, corsets and super high heels, this doesn’t really fit my view of myself. Above all, I have to be comfortable. I also had to find clothes that could be worn or easily modified for a rope suspension scene that we have planned. I chose a short plaid skirt, thigh high socks and a body suit for Friday. I can take the skirt off and can easily be tied and strung up. Saturday we plan on going to a party at night, so I wanted something really sexy. I have a black crop top and high-waisted panties that I will cover with a sheer black maxi skirt and pair with my red suede boots. I feel covered in both outfits even though so much of my body is visible, something I am not used to at all.

My favorite purchase for this trip is inspired by a cuff Purple Soul created for Littlegem for their trip to Eroticon this year, and while we didn’t get around to making the little finger leash like theirs, I did get a shiny new pair of cuffs with silver locks that I just love. They, like a collar, remind me of my submission to him and let others know that I am spoken for. I wear them when ever we are home or going to any kink-centered event.

Frolicon is held in a large hotel in Atlanta every year in mid-April and combines gaming and kink aspects, hosting thousands of visitors. We plan to attend classes and presentations for most of Friday and Saturday, including Intro to Floggers, Single Tail Basics, Spanking 201, Chest Harness Variations, Binding the Body to Fuck the Mind, Service as Submission and D/s Relationships 101. There is also a Rope Jam and Rope Exhibition, a kinky Circus, Naked Yoga and a Most Spankable Ass Competition. There are many events that aren’t for us but would appeal to so many of you like a Puppy Mosh, Littles Coloring Hour, and classes on everything from Large Vaginal Insertions to Anal Sadism. We aren’t interested in gaming at all, so I didn’t even look at the programming for that side of the convention, but I can imaging there is lots to entertain.

As a huge fan of spreadsheets and general organization, I printed off the entire schedule and we each highlighted what classes and events we wanted to go to, color-coded of course. Then I put them into a spreadsheet. There was so much we wanted to do that we had to choose between three and four options during some time slots. Finally we have a completed spreadsheet detailing all the events we plan to go to.

One of the biggest draws of this convention are the parties. There are party battles complete with judges, dungeon parties, room parties, penthouse parties, littles gatherings, and even an event for women who like to watch male on male action. We aren’t really big partiers, we are social and like to drink and have fun, but we usually do this at home or at friend’s homes. It is going to be interesting to see how we hang in these wild sex and alcohol infused environments. I am excited, nervous, horny, there are all sorts of wild thoughts running through my head about what to expect.

My husband brought home a bottle of gin earlier in the week and after two drinks, asked me to write down a wish list detailing all of the kinky things I would like to experience over the weekend. I’m glad I was a little tipsy when I wrote it, my inhibitions lowered, I was able to be completely honest. I checked over sober the next day, and still consented to all of my wishes, knowing that some would have been omitted if I wasn’t liquored up. My wish list is:

1. Public Impact Scene
2. Public Orgasm
3. Public Sex/Oral
4. MFF Threesome
5. Top anther Female (Rope – I’ve been practicing!)
6. Forced Exhibitionism
7. Getting Double Topped by Sir and another Female

I’m not guaranteed to receive everything on my list of course, but I’m hoping for a couple of them!

Hopefully, I will have a spectacularly kinky photo to contribute to this weeks Sinful Sunday. Next week, I will definitely write a post detailing the convention, what items I can strike off my wish list, and hopefully many other unexpected experiences. We will be there in an hour, and I will be counting down the seconds until we arrive!