After ten years of a mostly “vanilla” relationship, my husband and I decided to transition to a Dominant/submissive dynamic and dove headfirst into the exciting world of BDSM. Like many other aspects of our love story, it happened serendipitously, naturally and suddenly. We had a great marriage to begin with, but it only improved when we allowed ourselves to explore our true desires and open up to ideas we had previously suppressed. Read more about why we decided to switch to this relationship model here and the events that led us to this choice here!
We enjoy the practice of Shibari, so many of the photos and stories on this blog will revolve around rope bondage. I especially love the feeling of the rope on my skin, the feeling of vulnerability I have while tied, and it allows me to easily drop into subspace and float in that hazy world of nothingness. We try to practice a few times a week and attend a local class once a month, but we are by no means experts of any kind. If you have any questions about rope bondage, please send me an email! You can also check out our Shibari Gallery to see what kind of ropey fun we’ve been up to!
Our quaint and idyllic home sits on the side of a mountain in Western North Carolina, bordering a wild and primitive National Forest and providing us with complete privacy, allowing us the ability to explore our kink outdoors without disturbing anyone. We get energy and inspiration from living in the woods, and even though it has its drawbacks (internet is shitty at best), we wouldn’t change it for anything.
This blog is here to share our love story and invite you to peek into our kinky lives, and I hope to meet some new people along the way!