We text often, sharing fantasies, sexy photos, bringing each other to orgasm with tiny typed out letters on screens the size of our palms. On one such occasion, she told me she wanted him to fuck her mouth while I fucked her from behind. I’d just received my new strap-on in the mail, and we…
Category: Real Life
An Evolution I Never Expected
My husband recently allowed me to feature a photo of him on the blog for Sinful Sunday. He has found a new sort of acceptance with his body, and I have found a similar sort of acceptance lately. Not with my body necessarily, although my feelings about it are wrapped up in this as well….
Girlfriends
I have so many wonderful female friends. It’s pretty amazing, and I know and appreciate that it is also very rare for someone my age. I have been gathering these friends for thirty years now, forming close personal bonds with girls on the playground in elementary school, meeting and keeping friends during my college years,…
Slutty and Romantic
I am a romantic at heart. I love sappy movies, sweeping gestures of love, and surprises. My husband is also a romantic, although I’m not sure if he knows it or would use that word to describe himself. We’ve talked about what kind of Dom he is, and he always says he the kind that…
Intimacy: Strangers, Friends, Lovers and Life Partners
I really wish I could have found the time to write this post last week for the Food for Thought Friday meme, but I was busy with dates and work and all that life tends to throw at a person. I used to think intimacy was like those scenes in the movies where the girl…
A Happy New Year
We started off this new decade with a caning and bath. Dirty girls have to get clean!
A Bucket Full of Fucks
It has almost been a year since I wrote down a sexual bucket list. It was before our first big kink event, Frolicon in Atlanta, and he asked me to list all the things I wanted to do there. My list included a public impact scene, a public orgasm and getting it on with another…
Menstrual Health Issues
I’ve always considered my mental health to be very well managed. I do all the things I believe necessary to help keep my mind free from stress and strife. I’m very lucky that I’ve never suffered from any trauma that might stir up troubling memories. I am able to workout five days a week, I…
A Crafty Pair
We make stuff. I have been making stuff since I was a little kid. I didn’t need help from anyone either. I was in second grade when I decided I wanted a bird feeder outside my bedroom window. I found some old bits of wood and constructed this crooked thing that functioned perfectly. I should…
Got Kink?
I’ve always been kinky, I just didn’t know I was. I grew up in the American South where sex is this unspoken thing that only happens between a married man and woman for the purpose of procreation. That’s a little bit of an overstatement, but the pleasurable side of sex was never a topic of…









